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For My Father on His 80th Birthday
There are people who leave footprints on our lives. And then there are people who become part of the very landscape itself. My father is one of those people. As I sit down to write this tribute for his eightieth birthday, I find myself facing an unusual challenge: how do I adequately describe someone who has been present in every chapter of my life? How do I find words to express the gratitude I feel for a man whose influence is woven so deeply into who I am that it becomes d
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On Melancholy and Other Beautiful Things
Written on a quiet sunday afternoon. From time to time, melancholy comes to visit. Not with drama or despair. It comes carrying memories, old dreams, faces I haven't seen in years, and questions that no longer require answers. I have learned not to fight it. When I was younger, I imagined my life would unfold in a particular way. I would be happily married, living for my husband and children. I would pursue an academic career. I would have biological children and watch them g
Jun 144 min read


Choosing Love
I have come to believe that we choose to fall in love. Not in one grand, cinematic moment, but in a series of quiet, deliberate "yeses". We choose it when we accept an invitation to a date, and then another. When we stay a little longer in conversation. When we share parts of ourselves that invite curiosity, or reveal a gentle kind of compatibility. We choose it every time we step closer into another person’s world, and every time we open up our world. Love, in this sense, is
Apr 133 min read
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